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有的人不中奖愁闷一生，有的人中了奖全额捐献乐在其中，作为一个彩民快乐与否的原因究竟是什么？; ?; K7 A2 S1 o1 j; A" a6 ]
最近几天全国大奖频繁开出，不少彩民摇身一变成为百万乃至千万富翁，但不少人对某些中奖者搏杀型的买彩方式却不认同，认为如此中奖断难幸福。一个冷饭重炒的新闻是某个昔日弃奖彩民天天愁眉不展，苦学法律渴望找回奖金。最后则是一条来自海外的彩票新闻，美国老夫妻中得千万奖金一分不留，全数捐给慈善机构，却依然享受原来的幸福生活。
8 b' @. D4 N1 ~ 中奖，弃奖，中超级大奖，捐出千万奖金，似乎最近的人间悲喜剧都与彩票相关，但每个人的感受却大不一样。那位百万倍投中奖的仁兄现在确实高兴，但以他多期追加的买彩过程看，其实也可谓紧张万分，中奖也属不易。那位昔日弃奖彩民的故事现在又有了新发展，前次败诉之后，他苦学法律，希望打赢官司找回奖金，然而他现在早已把奖金当成生活最大指望，已经没有了买彩时的游戏心态，天天自我纠结郁闷。
4 y0 w2 Q9 h4 G' E% i0 V7 x 彩民买彩票的最大愿望无疑是中奖，几乎所有买彩票的人都是如此，不分你我，但究其根本原因，还是希望通过买彩票寻找幸福。收获奖金是幸福，结交彩友是幸福，天天有个念想也是幸福，彩民的生活与彩票有关，幸福也肯定与彩票有关。然而，最近那对捐出千万奖金的美国老夫妻却给我们说出了另外的幸福，真正的幸福。' l% y6 I" Z$ Z8 p# q. g8 D
这对美国老夫妻把中得的2000多万美元奖金全数捐给了当地红十字会、教堂和消防队等机构，自己分文不留。但他们的生活依然如以前一样简朴，只在每个周末去超市购买生活用品，住着百年前的老房子，没有额外的支出。我们似乎都可以理解彩民中奖之后捐款的善行，但对于这对老夫妻的做法却不能完全理解。把所有的奖金都捐了，岂不是白中奖了？一分钱不给自己留，不给子女留，那不是浪费了一生一次的好运气？不理解，真的不理解。6 ]6 ]" N3 C: K2 a! }" d& O
但是，这对老夫妻的一句话却可以解开所有的答案，他们说，此生最幸福的事是拥有彼此，这就够了。意思是，拥有金钱不是最幸福的事，拥有可以相守一生的人，才是幸福的全部。
- q# Z1 A& T6 z6 v( A+ X2 U' B$ g% @ 也许，决定幸福与否的不是物质财富，而是精神感受，精神的富有才是别人无法干扰和影响的幸福。你首先要觉得交朋友是幸福，每天充满希望是幸福，这是人们精神上首先认可的幸福，然后才通过彩票的途径加以实现。因此，真正是幸福感不是外界给予的，而是自身决定的。
7 z5 ~' {3 l7 p: O/ w$ w { 因此，在做一个彩民之前，请先做一个幸福的人，你有了幸福的信仰，坚定了幸福的力量，你才能把彩票也作为幸福的一部分，而不是让彩票决定你的幸福与否。（ |
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